We can't predict what is going to happen in the future. Future always change. We can't plan for future. Maybe can but it won't go as we planned. So plan well. And just wait and see. Or things that we expect to happen don't turn out well. Turn out bad instead. Like REALLY bad. Not all things we can get. Certain things are just meant to be that way. So yes we can't change anything. We just have to accept the fact.
The only way you can live a happy and satisfied life, is that when you start doing things that you that make you happy and satisfied. When we don't get to do those things, we just feel that we are not perfect. Just make an effort to be strong.
I'm trying to avoid negative thoughts in my mind. Sometimes we just say something that hurts people feelings without noticing it. Especially when we are angry. We must somehow find ways to overcome it. It's not healthy and can ruin your relationship with anyone including with your friends.
The most important thing to make relationship work is that respect each other. Both parties need to respect one another in relationship. Many relationship have their ups and downs. So work on it to make the relationship stay healthy. That's what i'm trying to do but ya know it's not that simple. Nothing is easy